Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Need help trying to convince parents-changing moods?

hi all, can someone hep me?

ok i'm in yr 12 and i am at the stage of having to decide what i want 2 do 4 the rest of my life (i live in aus). at one stage it was teaching, then customs, but i have finally resided myself to the fact i wish to pursue a career in nursing and then move into the army and complete my course there.



however both my parents are unhappy with this decision and always try and get me to see the bad points in it and have really pushed me to do teaching they think i am just in a phase (which i am not)

my parents both are the type to change their minds very quickly e.g one minute they are in support of me the next minute they're not



how can i gain their support and really tell them this is what i want to do? not rudely as they take these things very seriosly



thanks 4 all the help in advance



thanks katieNeed help trying to convince parents-changing moods?
Nursing is a wonderful field, I too wanted to become a nurse at your age (Im 24 now). The fact of the matter is is that what you decide to do in your life should be up to you, not your parents. I mean, your the one that is going to be doing the work getting thru school and doing the work in the army, not your folks.

There are 'bad point's' in every career, not just nursing, and if nursing is something you really want to do, then your not going to see the so called bad points in it, you may see them as being new and exciting challenges.

Honestly, your parents sound like my mom, she always sees the negative things to new ideas I have as opposed to the positive ones. Are you closer to one of parents? If so, maybe you could talk to them in private and tell them one-on-one how you feel and maybe they could talk to the other one. I didn't have that advantage, my dad wasn't around.

Just let them know that your standing your ground, and try pointing out the positives in nursing, there are TONS of things nurses can be proud of and advantages and opportunities nurses have, you will never be out of a job when you have your nursing license.

Oh yeah, and point out that just because you want to go to the army NOW doesn't mean that you HAVE to stay there your whole life. With your RN license, you can work in a variety of places. If you want to go to the army now, that's cool, go for it, but with that license, your free to work wherever you choose if you want to do something else later on.Need help trying to convince parents-changing moods?
I'm in year 11 and I know how you're feeling, but I WANT to do teaching. I think you just really need to make it clear to your parents that that is the career path YOU want to follow, it's your choice, not theirs.



Good luck! :)
Sit down and tell them how you feel. Say, 'Mom, dad, I love you both but please respect my dream.'. It IS what you want, right? Think about it. Dig deep into your heart and you will find what you wanna say.
What i think is that you will have to take your parents in confidence,

you sit with them and discuss why do you want to go in nursing.Try to know

reasons why they want to avoid you to go in nursing and satisfy them

with valid answer.Talk with them politely i am sure they will be agree
do what makes you happy i don't think your parents are gonna be there when your 35 and sittin in a tiny apartment by yourself because you just picked what they wanted and didn't look what makes the most money whats gonna make you the happiest what gonna help you raise a family some day

OH! please D: good people! teach me how to move on u.u?

HI..! the thing is that I'm in love with a guy i've been dating now%26amp;5months ago. I want to move on(: because I know things are not ever gonna change. He might love me, but he has a BIG PROBLEM. HE IS BIPOLAR D: so he changes mood%26amp;feelings every time!! %26amp;I CAN'T STAND THAT!

I can tell that I suffer A LOT for that, because now he is ';dating'; a friend of mine! that's really low, I GUESS,! %26amp;it hurts a lot!%26amp; he knows that卢卢 it seems that he feels better by making me suffer idk D:OH! please D: good people! teach me how to move on u.u?
Sooo if a guy is so pathetic that he'd actually date a person just to 'torment' YOU, then why would you want him? Aren't you above that..?

He doesn't sound worth the pain, %26amp;%26amp; your moods do not match, so I think you start with reminding yourself that %26amp;%26amp; also it would not work out because of this.

So no reason to be hurt.

Also it wouldn't hurt to start ignoring the guy. The cooler you act, the more bother'd they get.

';Don't ever let 'em see you sweat'; %26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt; Take it to heart. %26lt;3OH! please D: good people! teach me how to move on u.u?
If you are in love with him, the his bipolar shouldn't get in the way of the relationship.

If he is 'dating' one of your friends, move on and date a new guy.

If you are suffering you are not in love and you deserve not to suffer.

Break if off with him if it seems right,

Slowly stop talking to him as much and start going out more.

Moving on is easier than it seems
You are young, believe me you don't want a guy in your life with that type of behavior. Thank your lucky stars that he is dating someone else. When you mature, you will totally understand.

What is the name of this song?

y see, if you have one, or a chance to

In order to seize everything you ever thought for a while

You grab it, or let slip?



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There is vomit on his sweater already, Mom noodles

His temper, but on the surface to remain calm and ready to

To drop bombs, but he has forgotten

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He opened his mouth and said that the words are not out of

This is a case of choking, is now flirting

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It does not matter, they will stay away from drugs

He knows that, but it broke

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When he returned to his cell phone, and when

Returned to the laboratory 眉

All of this rhapsody

His best to seize this moment, I hope he does not pass the



x2

(You better lose yourself in the music, the current

I did, you would not get better in the past

You can not see one, do not miss the opportunity to crack down on no

This is an opportunity of a lifetime 眉)



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The world is my wish

Let me king, we are moving in one direction, a new world order

A normal life too boring, but the star of a document review body after death

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It is a time for us all these hoes is all he

Coast to coast show, he also knows that tourists

Lonely road, and only God knows

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He will return to his home, his daughter does not even know

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How does he not open, he is a product of the Cold War

Move to the next one which flows Schmoe

His nose and the sale of beach pigeon

Even the soap, he and implement

But I think this is an old custom, but in order to win, and then

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x2

(You better lose yourself in the music, the current

I did, you would not get better in the past

You can not see one, do not miss the opportunity to crack down on no

This is an opportunity of a lifetime 眉)



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This tearing of the ************* roof off like two dogs in a cage

I was playing the beginning, everything changed mood

According to chew and spit out the evil from the stage

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Some people think that a better lip

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In fact, I get it with my colleagues, 9

5, can I find the right kind of life, my family does not

Business people, those damn food stamps do not buy cloths not

And it is not the movie, there's no Mekhi Phifer, this is my life

These difficult times, and thus more difficult to

Try to feed and water my seed, in addition to

Teeter tottering between a father and catching an opera singer, the first one

Mama Drama and screaming children and

There is much I want to

To stay in one place, the monotony of the day

Allow me this, I would like turtles

I had to develop a plot or go to jail or shot to death

Success is my only ************* option, failure is not

Mamma, I love you, but the trailer to go

I get a lot of old not in Salem

So I am here I will shoot.

Supplied by the failure could lead to a unique opportunity for me, I



x2

(You better lose yourself in the music, the current

I did, you would not get better in the past

You can not see one, do not miss the opportunity to crack down on no

This is an opportunity of a lifetime 眉)



You can not do to your thinking, to the peopleWhat is the name of this song?
its called lose yourself by eminem the lyrics are almost right =) here they are



Look, if you had, one shot, or one opportunity

To seize everything you ever wanted-One moment

Would you capture it, or just let it slip?



Yo, His palms are sweaty, knees weak, arms are heavy

There's vomit on his sweater already, mom's spaghetti

He's nervous, but on the surface he looks calm and ready

To drop bombs, but he keeps on forgetting

What he wrote down, the whole crowd goes so loud

He opens his mouth, but the words won't come out

He's chokin, how everybody's jokin now

The clock's run out, time's up, over bloah

Snap back to reality, Oh there goes gravity

Oh, there goes rabbit, he choked

He's so mad, but he won't give up that

No, he won't have it , he knows his whole back city ropes

It don't matter, he's dope

He knows that, but he's broke

He's so stacked that he knows

When he goes back to his mobile home, that's when it's

Back to the lab again yo

This whole rap s**t

Better go capture this moment and hope it don't pass him



[Chorus:]

You better lose yourself in the music, the moment

You own it, you better never let it go

You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow

This opportunity comes once in a lifetime yo,



You better lose yourself in the music, the moment

You own it, you better never let it go

You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow

This opportunity comes once in a lifetime you better,



His soul's escaping, through this hole that is gaping

This world is mine for the taking

Make me king, as we move toward a, new world order

A normal life is borin, but superstardom's close to post mortom

It only grows harder, only grows hotter

He blows us all over these hoes is all on him

Coast to coast shows, he's know as the globetrotter

Lonely roads, God only knows

He's grown farther from home, he's no father

He goes home and barely knows his own daughter

But hold your nose cause here goes the cold water

These ho's don't want him no mo, he's cold product

They moved on to the next schmoe who flows

He nose dove and sold nada

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Da da dum da dum da da



[Chorus:]

You better lose yourself in the music, the moment

You own it, you better never let it go-o

You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow

This opportunity comes once in a lifetime yo



You better lose yourself in the music, the moment

You own it, you better never let it go

You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow

This opportunity comes once in a lifetime yo, you better



No more games, I'ma change what you call rage

Tear this m*********n roof off like 2 dogs caged

I was playin in the beginnin, the mood all changed

I been chewed up and spit out and booed off stage

But I kept rhymin and stepwritin the next cypher

Best believe somebody's payin the pied piper

All the pain inside amplified by the fact

That I can't get by with my 9 to 5

And I can't provide the right type of life for my family

Cause man, these g****m food stamps don't buy diapers

And it's no movie, there's no Makai Pheiffer, this is my life

And these times are so hard and it's getting even harder

Tryin to feed and water my seed, plus

Teeter-totter caught up between bein a father and a pre-madonna

Baby mama drama's screamin on and

Too much for me to wanna

Stay in one spot, another day of monotony

Has gotten me to the point, I'm like a snail

I've got to formulate a plot or I end up in jail or shot

Success is my only m*********n option, failure's not

Mom, I love you, but this trailer's got to go

I cannot grow old in Salem's lot

So here I go is my shot.

Feet fail me not this may be the only opportunity that I got



[Chorus:]

You better lose yourself in the music, the moment

You own it, you better never let it go

You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow

This opportunity comes once in a lifetime yo



You better lose yourself in the music, the moment

You own it, you better never let it go

You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow

This opportunity comes once in a lifetime you better,



You can do anything you set your mind to, man

My sister is very hateful?

How should I deal with it? My sister is older than me, yet she acts like a child. If something doesn't go her way, she will take it out on me in a heratbeat. She is only happy when good things happen for her. She expects to be treated like a queen, yet she treats me like dirt. The saying ';treat others the way you want to be treated'; means NOTHING to her. She will say really hurtful things to me and doesn't even care. and she never apologizes. It has been like this for my entire life. I have no idea what i should do. I am so tired of it. Everything depends on her ever changing mood. If she is happy everything will be nice and fun. But the second something upsets her, it's like night and day. She will completely change into a mean, nasty, hateful person. I really can't stand it anymore. What should I do???My sister is very hateful?
If it were me then i would totally ignore her and her antics . not everything revolves around her and she needs to know it . are you sure she is the older of the 2 of ya ? she may be older but it sounds like your the mature one . tell her to quit acting like a baby and leave it at that . she will get Pretty lonely after a while .My sister is very hateful?
Treat her the same way then she will really know how bad it has been making you feel... Try it.
im the oldest sister.. and i used to be just like that.

Till oneday i was having alot of problems with friends and stuff and i realised how much i need my sisters.

Everythings better with friends and all that but me and my sister still hang out heaps (were 2yrs apart)



It wont be like that forever. When she grows up a little and realises its not all her things will change



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talk to your sister about it and tell her how you feel. if that does not work then take it to your parents. you do not deserve that.
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  • 16 and i have boarderline personality disorder..help?

    I was diagnosed to have (BPD) , ever since i was younger i felt somewhat disconnected from my family and sometimes even friends. It's been pretty rough and i dont except to explain my whole life story over yahoo! Answers but i really need some advice..please. I'm 16 years old and I now live with my dad, but I used to live and be very close with my moms side, which whom I've grown up on, I don't really talk much to them anymore since I didn't go by what my grandmother and aunt wanted me to do which was go to a residential place that would ';help'; m, but my mom and dad (who hasnt really been in my life much except for now) though would **** me up even more. I'm ALOT happier now living with my dad and step mom and i have the best boyfriend ever that i really fell sooo much in love with.. -but for me, Idk why, its just really hard at the same time because hes the first person I've ever really cared for and loved in my life and I always feel bored, I'm not depressed, and ive never been sexually abused, but when i am bored i start to think crazy thoughts that obviously would never happen, but when i get in that mood I get jealous and I get mad but then I change moods really quick but I'm not Bipolar? I read up on BPD, and i do have all the symptoms but then i read that its hard to keep relationships with someone who has this disorder...I don't wanna lose anyone ealse in my life and I DONT wanna lose my boyfriend, its the worst fear I've ever had!

    Please help, I really sometimes get nervous and think ';wow how am I gonna make it ?';

    Please help me out and give me advice.

    Thank you!16 and i have boarderline personality disorder..help?
    I would not trust a diagnosis of BPD under the age of 18 - usually it is incorrect %26amp; is not usually given as a diagnosis due to some of the criteria not being able to be adequately assessed until you are out of adolescence. Also residential care is not even an option for BPD - it is not seen as being even close to an effective treatment - being in a care facility is best left for times of crisis.



    A lot of people under the age of 18 show signs of BPD but is extremely rare for it to be a true case as usually at that age it is a risk of developing into it.16 and i have boarderline personality disorder..help?
    you're not supposed to be diagnosed with BPD if you're under 18....
    I have BPD and I can tell you that sometimes people just leave but I have seen people make it successfully with a boyfriend/spouse. I am no dr so I cant tell you if you have it or not but I can tell you that you might have it. If a lot of those diagnosis fits you I would guess you do but like I said Im no dr and cant tell you that. If there is DBT (dialectical behavioral therapy) in your area though I have seen a lot of people benefit from it. I am in it right now and I can gaurantee you that it has and is helping me.
    what is paramount is to choose your healing route------ carefully-- be really aware that the druggs/meds treatment for this can be damaging to you and go on for years with no improvement and massive damaging detrimental side effects to you from meds .



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    All treatment recommended by the doctors should be tested and approved and quite rightly so.

    That makes sense right

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    Drug companies Fund most testing and will only and I mean only look at treatments, which show the promise of good deal of a profit, --they will actively dismiss any therapy which does not have profit potential?thus your doctor will only recommend therapies that have been tested with profit potential in them.



    Despite The fact that some of these other therapies mentioned here do have overwhelming benefits some, which have saved needless amputations, needless pain and trauma, and much loss of life.



    Drugs are not the answer for depression with mind altering damaging chemicals or any other mental illness.



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    1,get someone to massage your back and legs at least 3 times a week use peanut oil or a mix of 50-50 olive and peanut oil.



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    A total cure however is tied up with karma so you can imagine just how important is the voluntary work.
    oh my gosh..i really don't think that label you've been assigned is in any way helpful.

    Have you ever spoken to a good trustworthy professional about this issue? i think it may help if they explained what it means to you in more simple terms without it provoking so much fear and anxiety.

    Sure you may find some things more difficult that others but don't condemn yourself as being incompetent or broken as a person.Everyone has struggles in one way or another. There are no 'perfect' people. Don't limit yourself or worry so much...try hard to work on whatever 'issues' you feel you may have,,try to open up to people you trust and don't lose hope. Relationships don't always come easy to people in general. Learn to be your own best friend.

    Communication is everything and try to express what's important to you. Practice it.

    As your only 16 you'll be going through alot of changes anyways so don't freak out if you have moods that you cant' explain. Focus on the positive. Believe in yourself...its the most important thing. You got to be on your own side and look after your own welfare.

    Try to get into good healthy habits as much as possible %26amp; keep away from negative influences like drugs, alcohol etc.



    God put you on this earth for a reason %26amp; he wants whats best for you %26amp; your happiness.

    Take care of yourself.

    Help with bipolar?

    im new to the whole bipolar thing, i dont know anything about it, but i know it must be a very hard thing to deal with and let me say that i am sorry to anyone that has this type of disorder, but i have a boyfriend who says that he is bipolar, yet he hasnt shown me any paperwork, but ive been looking up symptoms of it on the internet and they seem to be the same as his, but i want to know, how long does a person usually change moods for, is it usually for 2 or 3 days or what? cause he has been acting depressed and mad lately and has no emotion other times, plus the fact he said he's bi polar, he said he'll be better in a few days and be back to his old self, but how long do you usually stay in that mood?Help with bipolar?
    I think it's undetermined as to how long an episode lasts...Ya see, I too--have had a relationship with a guy that was bipolar...And it was soooo difficult--as he refused to take the medication that was prescribed for him! He would get angry at the drop of a hat, and I could never tell what type of mood he was going to be in...He managed his disorder with drugs %26amp; alcohol...instead of the medicine his doc prescribed...





    The mood swings are very erratic--as people with this disorder will feel like they are on cloud nine for a short period...and then will crash to a severe low point...Aside from that one bf, I've also had a couple friends with bipolar...My one friend said that she experiences more episodes of depression as opposed to her episodes of mania (highs). It's depends upon the individual--I suppose...And of course--whether or not they are taking meds for their condition...





    I'll tell ya--there's a great site out there, where you can gain knowledge %26amp; a better understanding of this type of issue...Check it out: http://www.healthboards.com/boards/forum…Help with bipolar?
    He's probably not bipolar...


    Men rarely get bipolar disorder.
    i had a gf that changed by the hour. She would call me screaming, then she would cry, and then apologize and ask if I wanted to see her later and she would be happy. It was weird to deal with, It could vary. Before I knew she was bi, I didn't notice, just thought she was a little weird.
    bipolar patients should always be on some type of medicine to manage their symptoms. and they need counseling from time to time. don't blame yourself for how he feels or acts because it's never going to be your fault whether he is bipolar or not.
    If it happens that quickly that is kind of hyper-bipolar or something. Usually the swings happen over a couple months period of time or even years. He probably has paperwork, just ask him more about it.
    I dont know that it is a disorder. But i do know that people who are this are very split personality. One minite they can be very pissed and the next like happier then a dog when they get a dog bisket.
    I had a best friend with bipolar -- not anymore though and I'm good with it.


    Here is what they do:


    ';I am so glad you are my friend and let's have some fun -- a LOT of fun and laughter.


    Next day:


    ';I don't need any friends so leave me alone and I need to just die off the planet';


    Next day:


    ';I'm sorry - you know how I get.....';


    Next day:


    People are talking about me and trying to hurt me emotionally - everyone is against me';


    Next day:


    Happy Happy Happy!!


    Next day:


    ';Stop ******* worrying about me and leave me alone';


    Next day:


    ';I'm sorry';


    He's 37 and lives with his parents -- he's a mess and as much as I tried to help him, I got a kick in the *** for it -- it won't happen anymore - he refused medication. Said it made him feel numb...........guess they'd rather feel at least SOME happiness than numb all the time ...that's what HE said.


    I did research and understand that is not always the case though. I was emotionally drained.


    You need to be extremely strong to be in this relationship. I am serious. Good luck!!
    Honestly, the upswings and downswings can last a few days or a few months. I think more often they last a few months. Do you know if he is seeing a doctor? There is really very little that can be done for bipolar disorder without medication. The medication WILL help as long as he takes it as prescribed and doesn't convince himself that he doesn't need it.





    I had a roommate with bipolar disorder, and at the time, all I knew about it was from movies. Most of what they show you on television isn't true. It comes in LONG swings, and can be helped with medicine. Her biggest problem was that she took herself off the medication when she felt that she had recovered. It doesn't work that way. She ended up trying to hurt herself.





    Lastly, It's really great that you're doing research on your own. I'm sure that will help you more than anything and it shows a lot of maturity in your relationship. Kudos.
    I have a famlily member with this disorder as well. It's very difficult to deal with because when you love them soooo much, it's terrible to see what they do. When someone has Bipolar disease, their moods change dramatically. Not necessarily in two or three days but in even a day. They don't have emotions sometimes, and they tend to be lonely and anti-social. Drugs is very common in people with Bipolar disease because they are so depressed that they do it because they feel it will make them feel better. BUT, YOU MUST WATCH OUT FOR THIS: PEOPLE WITH BIPOLAR TEND TO HAVE THE FEELING OF COMMITTING SUICIDE. 25-50% OF PEOPLE WITH BIPOLAR DISEASE HAVE A CHANCE OR DID COMMIT SUICIDE. Bipolar disease is also confused with A.D.D because the symptoms of Bipolar disease and A.D.D are almost the same. So, you should ask your doctor to diagnose your boyfriend. I will pray for him just as much as I pray for the one in my family who has it.
    That sounds about right - a few days is how I cycle I guess. Or more. Is he getting medication for this? He probably should talk to his doctor if he is. His meds may need changed if he is depressed for too long - like more than a few days. BUT if you talk to him about it - do it very nicely and expect a possible out burst. Don't always be suggesting it's just his disorder or med imbalance!
    You sound like a really smart girl to be thinking about all of this stuff. Good for you! You are doing the right thing by finding out every thing you can before it gets serious.





    First, you are on the right track in your thinking. People like to say they are bipolar now days to make excuses for lots of things. They will also tell you that they are OCD or Manic/Depressive. This is a great way to get attention and be forgiven. Make sure he has actually been diagnosed.





    It is very important that if your BF is BP he see a doctor regularly and take medication. That is really the only way he will be able to lead a healthy life and have a solid relationship with a another person (you).





    Be very careful sweetie as BP patients often use every excuse possible to not get help. It is an unfortunate and sad symptom of their problem. It is also common for them to change or discontinue their meds - which of course changes the mood they are in..





    Please make sure you totally love this guy and are completely prepared for a roller coaster relationship before you or he gets too involved. It's only fair to both of you that the groundwork is set up front.





    It's such a shame when a person has this disorder, but it can be controlled and with lots of love and support from friends the person can live a stable lifestyle. The problems occur when someone comes into the relationship unprepared.





    Peace and blessings to you and your troubled boyfriend.
    First, there are two diff levels of bipolar (1 and 2). I am Bipolar 1 rapid cyclying with mixed episodes. With each person it differs. I can be depressed and then a manic spell will break out for a few days, then I will get raged about something and go back to depressed for a few days. So, watch his pattern, I guarantee he has a pattern. Then you will know when he is coming down and when he is about to explode.
    I'm Wakster's partner, and am a registered mental health nurse. In my experience of nursing people with this condition, there is no set time for ';high'; or ';low'; moods. However, returning to ';normal'; within a few days is most unusual! Usually the individual is either extremely low in mood - very depressed showing no motivation and very negative. Or totally opposite - very high in mood, e.g.dresses bizarrely, has ideas of grandeur, may spend money excessively....etc. With this condition it is hard to stabilise the individual's mood, and like with several mental disorders the individual is not complient with medication. He will also have been seen by a psychiatrist who would have diagnosed him with this condition. email me if you need any further information.
    Think long and hard about continuing this relationship. Please.


    Sometimes moods swing within a day. Sometimes it is a few days to a week or so. Sometimes, moods can last months.


    My father and my sister have been diagnosed with bipolar. And I think my x is, but there is not an official diagnosis.


    Growing up with a father that was so unpredictable was awful. My dad was a good provider. But sometimes bipolar affects a person's ability to work, not in my dad's case. But I remember him taking off work for weeks at a time when he was depressed; some jobs wouldn't let you do that. You never knew what was going to make him mad - sometimes things that should have brought about no reaction in a normal person. Even though I respect my dad, I still to this day do not like him.


    My mother has had a terrible life dealing with his moods, anger, or lack of emotion toward her. I would never trade lives with her. I could say things about her life that were good because of my dad - he was a good provider, she was able to be a stay at home mom, she got lots of gifts - expensive jewlrey, etc. But with all that, I would never accept those things to be with a person who you can't be yourself around and have to walk on eggshells. And who doesn't consistently have the ablity to treat you with respect. My dad isn't always awful, but like they say, it only takes a little bit of poison to ruin the pot.


    I grew up and married an abusive man. Like I said, I am pretty sure he suffers from bipolar too. When I was dating him, I didn't see anything wrong with when he was mean or angry, because that is how my dad had been. When we were dating, he was way better than my dad too in comparison. I ended up in a really bad marriage. After ten years together, he started to act our physically toward me. And we had a child tether. and now I am trying to get custody of our child.


    The legacy of my parents relationship has effected me, my sister, my mom and my son in negative ways.


    On the other hand, my dad would probably be dead if my mom didn't marry him. But with that, it has cost her a lot - her happiness, her health, other things I cannot put into words. She basically gave her life to him and he is still a jerk.


    Good luck. But please think long and hard about taking this relationship further... My advice... run before you are connected to this man in a way that you can't get out of.
    Does he HAVE to show you ';paperwork'; for you to believe he has Bipolar? Do you think he is a compulsive liar and therefore you have to verify everything he says? BTW, compulsive lying is NOT a symptom of Bipolar.





    Bipolar takes its sufferers on an emotional roller coaster. There is no definitive time period for our moods. Oh yeah, our loved ones get to sample the horror second hand but it can still be quite scary for them. My ex use to say how ';scary'; it was. All I could do was respond yeah, but he wasn't experiencing it first hand like I was... I had a front row seat in my own personal roller coaster from hell.





    All I can say is meds do help to stabilize some bipolars. But it is never EASY. If your BF isn't on meds then I would have to say WALK AWAY. Sorry.

    Will birth control change me?

    I just got put on a low dose of birth control to help my periods. I always have cramps and a heavy period so my gyno just gave me it to even things out. But what exactly will it do for me? I know it will make my periods shorter and less painful, but will it affect my hormones? Will my mood change? I'm always a little grumpy and low, but will the pill affect that?

    This probably sounds really strange, but I don't want it to make me all perky because I actually think when I'm low, I am more creative. I write my best poems and I get really inspired by my low emotions. I'm just curious as to what this pill will make me feel like. I'm scared that it will change me or something. I've never been on anything like this and I don't know how it's going to make me feel.

    Am I worrying about this too much?!!Will birth control change me?
    I think you are worrying too much!



    I've been on several different pills to regulate my period. I have noticed with some of them that the mood swings that happen right before my period are much less, but it doesn't impact my moods or how I feel the rest of the month.



    If you don't like how you feel on it, you can always get off it. The hormones would be out of your system in less than a month.

    I need some information about lexapro, I need to know can it really change your moods,my doctor just put me?

    on this medication today and I was okay with it till I read the info pack on the medication. anyone who is taking this med or has please let me know how it worked for you any information would be great. Thank you.I need some information about lexapro, I need to know can it really change your moods,my doctor just put me?
    Everyone is different. For some people, it works spectacularly well, and it's very clear to them--it's a miracle drug for such people.But they're in the minority of the antidepressant takers. For most, there's a much milder reaction. The reaction won't be immediate, but will take maybe two months. If you don't feel better then, then it might be time to try a different antidepressant.I need some information about lexapro, I need to know can it really change your moods,my doctor just put me?
    I was on it and it worked very well. It helped with depression and anxiety. I had no side effects either. All of the stuff that they put on those info packs are things that have happened to like 2 people out of 100,000. The do that to make sure they cannot get sued for malpractice. Honestly, it was very effective for me. When it came to mood changing my anxiety could make me bitchy but it regulated that a lot.
    Everyone is different and I know Lexapro works well for some people. But for me, it didn't help with depression after 4 weeks and I had negative sexual side effects (no orgasms) but that side effect went away when I stopped the Lexapro.



    My doctor switched me to Abilify 10 mg which worked out a lot better.

    Will birth control change me?

    I just got put on a low dose of birth control to help my periods. I always have cramps and a heavy period so my gyno just gave me it to even things out. But what exactly will it do for me? I know it will make my periods shorter and less painful, but will it affect my hormones? Will my mood change? I'm always a little grumpy and low, but will the pill affect that?

    This probably sounds really strange, but I don't want it to make me all perky because I actually think when I'm low, I am more creative. I write my best poems and I get really inspired by my low emotions. I'm just curious as to what this pill will make me feel like. I'm scared that it will change me or something. I've never been on anything like this and I don't know how it's going to make me feel.

    Am I worrying about this too much?!!Will birth control change me?
    I am like you... not the most perky person in general. I started low-dose birth control pills for heavy periods too. I have been on the for about 5 months and I feel the same. My periods have changed for the better minimally... but my overall persona is the same. I wouldn't worry. I think the hormones in the pill would be more likely to cause moodiness or depression rather than perkiness. But my guess is that you will probably feel relatively the same. Good luck!Will birth control change me?
    You are definitely worrying WAY too much. Since the pill contains hormones, it can affect your mood, but each person is different, and so is each pill, so it kind of just depends. If it's making you too ';perky'; you can always asked to be switched to another kind.
    Heh ... If you're worried about BC making you more perky you're probably wrong. My experience with BC is that it makes me horribly depressed. I don't take it anymore because my body can not handle all of those hormones.

    Every woman's body is different and I hope the pill doesn't hurt more than help - just describing my experience.

    How can i change my eye color (no contacts or surgery)?

    i heard some people can change there eye color like mentally or somethign like when there moods change and stuff.Can i do that i have brown eyes or wat should i do to change them put not permated like for time or when i want them to change if ani one can help i swear i would love u for ever. thanxsHow can i change my eye color (no contacts or surgery)?
    I know how to make mine red ... but no other colors ... sorry!



    Frankly, I don't think it can be done. Eye color may change in your early childhood years, then that's it ... as far as free eye color changes go. Thereafter, if you want a different color, you'll pay for it.How can i change my eye color (no contacts or surgery)?
    Eye color is genetically determined and as much as I would enjoy being loved forever, its just not possible. Not even with surgery. Colored contacts are the only way to go.

    Funny isn't it, I have blue eyes and I think they are cold looking, I'd love to have brown eyes, chocolate, amber, fudge colored, they always look so warm.

    I guess we are never happy with what we have.
    The only time I've ever heard of this was to Nymphadora Tonks from the Harry potter books.



    I doubt it's possible.
    i've never heard of anyone that could change there eye color based on there mood. the only way that i know you can change you eye color is to wear contacts.
    the secret to this is...

    u see the human eye(or any animals for that matter) constitutes millions of little color pigments that provide its distinguished color. now these pigments r genetically decided at(infact before) birth. So unfortunately nothing can be done about it...but u could consider blinding urself....i mean its not contacts or surgery but still would change ur eye color...make it red or gray or...u get the picture....!
    lol

    well mine are brown, and

    in the spring they become really ligth.
    thats bull



    sometime th color changes with puberty or with prepubesant children



    but theirs no way to induce a change
    My eye color changes quite often..though not from green into brown or blue. It stays green just becomes lighter or darker. Like in the morning it's very pale and in the evening it becomes really intense.

    I don't think it has something to do with mood or mental abilities. It should depend on lightening.
    There is no way to change your eye color w/o contacts. Hazel eyes will seem to change depending on what color you are wearing but that's it. Your mood will sometimes change the color of your eyes. That's about it.
    You can't.

    You'll need contacts or surgery.
    welll.... im afraid you cant change your eye color to blue unless you consider surgery which may i add find abit drastic plus the fake irises look... lifeless. But eye color can change naturally (not dramatically unless you are a hazel eyed person). Eye (and hair) color depends on the amount of melanin present and also may change as you age. During puberty there is a hormone in your body which triggers production of more melanin or something so hair and eye colors are known to change during that time. Any way the following information may be more useful to you. You can increase melanin in your body by:

    spending time in the sun which triggers the melanin in your skin to protect UV rays

    drinking water because there melanin is soluble

    eating vege's.

    and some form of vitamin B6 ( i think.)

    anyway also eating alot of raw foods such as vegges and fruits make your eyes seem brighter, lighter colored and much more clearer, it also gets rid of shadows under your eyes.

    oh and beware the thing about ingesting doses of ink over a long period of time is bogus.

    anyway hope this helps you.

    truth fully i find dark eyes just as nice as blue eyes.

    O and btw people with hazel eyes have different amounts of melanin present therefore it is known to change it is more noticable in the change of your mood.

    peace out



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    when i am at my grandmother's house, on my dad's side...with all of my cousins and everything....my mood changes, into a very outgoing wild chick that sometimes is mean to them....but then other times i feel like i am just using them to go and have fun with me, because they replace the friends that i don't want to have.



    when i am at my mom's mother's side's house....i get very quiet, like i don't want to talk to anybody......and i just get isolated and just a weird feeling. i have also put it together that my families are so diffferent in many ways, and my mom's mom's side.....have step dads.....and my dad's mom's side are all true like they don't lie about things, or cover them up, they are honest, and enjoy living and laughing!!! my grandma did split up with my grandpa back in the day, but she ALSO left her ex ex husband because he treated my uncle and aunt bad.





    Why do my moods change....and if i can see the person i want to be, that makes me happy, how do i stay that way?How does being in a different environment change my actions?
    On your father's side you feel free to do whatever you please without judgement because they do what you do (from what it sounds like) but at your mom's side of the family you are faced with morals and value's and depending on what you like doing that can leave you feeling judged or watched though more than likely you really shouldn't feel that way, family is family. If what you're doing isn't something you know is ';wrong'; in the first place then stop worrying about it and just be yourself!How does being in a different environment change my actions?
    The people your with.

    How much do you think music influences us?

    Music affects emotions and teens use music to enhance or intensify their mood or to change mood directions (Christenson %26amp; Roberts, 1998).



    Pre-adolescents and adolescents listen to music (including radio, CDs, tapes and music videos) between 3 and 4 hours per day (Roberts %26amp; Christenson, 2001).



    Teens consider musicians their heroes more frequently than athletes and rate the influence of music higher than religion or books (Knight-Ridder/Tribune News Service, 1999).



    I'm talking about the secret propaganda behind it.

    Each time periods' mood is being controlled by a higher form (humans, but you get my riff)

    I think people檚 emotions and thoughts are somewhat reflected on their music. Like for example how teens have always liked to listen to something ';hard';. I assume it's because a lot of teenagers seem to connect with the content. DO you think this power stop if people realized a lot of their musicians are using this method?How much do you think music influences us?
    I agree! Music is a powerful force that effects people of all ages. I just found this new artist named Michael Nappi. His music makes me feel like I'm a teen again! It's amazing!How much do you think music influences us?
    well I know it changes moods, but I don't think I buy into that music makes zombies theory.
    music can influence you mood ,i like to listen to punk(im in my 40s)and i hate sloppy stuff and ';girlie';stuff,music can make you feel good if your a bit ****ed off,or can make you calm if you are uptight so its not all bad

    Do i have minor rapid-cycling bipolar disorder?

    I'm sorry if i don't have a detailed explanation like some questions but last Tuesday, was feeling really depressed. Then, for Wednesday and Thursday i was really hyper, and couldn't stop talking and yelling, and was just really jumpy, then again today I was really depressed and just didn't want to talk to anyone and was just down, and then for a second i thought about cutting my forearm, above the wrists so nobody would see, and i always thought people who cut themselves were just really stupid but for a few minutes today i couldn't stop thinking about and realized there might be something wrong with me. Also, people keep bugging me saying that i'm really hyper somedays and somedays im just really depressed, and i didnt even really realize it until today. I've been getting these mood swings for a few months now, and normally when i'm depressed i think about committing suicide, but then I'm all hyper the next day, or day after and realize that those ideas were stupid. And this cycle just keeps repeating, hyper a couple days, depressed a couple days, and its getting annoying, and i cant remember the last time i was just normal for a day. And it feels so weird and hard to explain, but i cant really control what i'm doing sometimes, but i can at the same time. It's sort of like sleep walking while your awake. I keep telling myself its stupid and not to do it, but then i just suddenly do it. Like the other week i was hanging out with my friend and we stole a couple beers from our parents and drank them, and i kept telling myself it was stupid and the beer tasted disgusting but i kept drinking it. Then we went around and spray painted signs and the skate park at night, and stole bottles from peoples recycling and smashed them all on the street then we went down to subway and screwed around with the people there getting them mad until they called the police then we just ran away. And i keep doing things like that when im hyper, then i do just nothing when im depressed.i don't really mind the hyper feeling so much, but i hate the depressed one. A few minutes ago i also thought about smoking because my friend always says how he feels so much less depressed when he does and im kinda considering trying it, and my dads a big smoker and won't realize any missing. So then i googled mood swings and depression, then i remembered the other day this one girl asked me if i have like bipolar disorder or something because i was so hyper 5th period, then 6th i was just depressed and didnt even wanna move, so i googled bipolar disorder, and noticed that there were some types where you would cycle from depressed to hyper 4 times a year, and then i didnt think i had it because i cycle like 4 times a week, then i noticed something that said rapid-cycling bipolar disorder, but it didnt specify how often you would change moods, so i was just wondering, could i have that? If not, what could it be?Do i have minor rapid-cycling bipolar disorder?
    I think it's more likely that you have Moody Teenager Disorder. You didn't give your age but since you stole beer from your parents I'm guessing you're a teen, probably between 14-17 years old. This is normal for someone your age. Feeling wildly moody and shifting from happy to sad to angry to happy again within a matter of a week is not abnormal for someone going through puberty.



    Teens also tend to make stupid decisions (like vandalizing public property, smoking, etc.) because of a combination of raging hormones and a lack of mature frontal lobes. You do stupid things because the rational part of your brain isn't fully formed yet, and won't be until you hit your early 20s. Instead of making a sound, logical decision with your frontal lobes, your brain reroutes those decisions to the central part of your brain where emotions are processed. That's why you make so many rash, emotional decisions - right now, that's where your brain is processing things. When you get older you will grow up and learn how to use the rational part of your brain.



    If your mood swings are really bothering you, I would suggest talking to your school counselor about it. They can help you determine whether or not your mood swings are within the normal range for a teenage boy, or whether you should seek further psychological evaluation. And if you ever feel like hurting or killing yourself, please don't hesitate to call 1-800-SUICIDE. It is a completely anonymous help line where you can talk to a trained counselor on the phone 24/7 at no cost. They won't take your name, phone number, address, or any personal information at all. They're just there to talk to you.



    Good luck.Do i have minor rapid-cycling bipolar disorder?
    It's certainly possible, but you really need to see a doctor to get a true diagnosis and proper treatment. If you've been thinking about hurting yourself, and having difficulty with impulse control, you really really need to see a doctor - preferably even a psychiatrist.



    Good luck to you!

    Do I have depression?

    I feel like I'm suffering from depression but I don't want to go to the doctors in case I'm wrong. I'm in my final year of college and I've had suicidal thoughts since high school. The thoughts have started to occur more often, sometimes they happen on a daily basis. I just feel worthless and I would make people around me happy if I wasn't here anymore. I also seem to change moods very easily. The slightest thing can make me upset or angry and it then becomes very difficult to get me out of this mood. I feel it's affecting my relationships with people because I'm constantly in a mood. I think I also over sleep too but I occasionally I find it difficult to get to sleep at all. I worry about going to the doctors because I haven't told anyone I know about how I feel, and I can go around being happy when around people. It really confuses me. I only ever seem to get upset when I'm on my own, I have felt depressed around friends, but it's not very often.



    I just want to be sure that I do have a reason to go to the doctors and I'm not being stupid.

    Thank you to whoever answers my question.Do I have depression?
    It seems (clinical) depression, but be aware that no one can make a diagnosis by internet.

    The best bet is seeing a psychiatrist for a proper diagnostic and treatment. If for some reason that's not an option or if you cannot afford therapy, read http://natural-depression.blogspot.com/

    In many cases depression will respond quickly to the use of this treatments (within a few weeks), but if this still doesn't work, see a psychiatrist; psychiatric treatment for depression involves antidepressants and usually but not always, therapy.



    Hope this helps. Regards!Do I have depression?
    You are presenting several classic signs %26amp; symtoms.

    Depression is treatable.

    See a doctor; it won't sound stupid.

    Good luck.
    Hurting people hurt others. It's not you. They are the ones who have a problem. They are sick and being mean makes them feel better. People/kids/parents do mean things or lie to manipulate. They just want the reaction so they can get high feel good from it. You have to look at the agenda and not just the words. Abuse is anything that's not uplifting so forget what truth is being used right then.



    When they or you have been thru a bad past/rejection/father gone it makes things start. So called disorders such as Bipolar, cutting, OCD, anxiety, panic attacks,hearing voices can all come from a tramautic past. It opens doors to the negative and things like addicitons, cravings also. You can talk to me or google ';emotional abuse'; Knowing the truth is the step to freedom from pain.



    Sickness can be a spiritual problem so praying to get rid of negative things of a spiritual nature is often needed after years of abuse.



    Turns out psychiatry is not based on science. Its just like evolutionary theory and a guess. Doctors only practice this theory on the side of being docs. There is no medical background to it at all. Psychiatrists do not draw blood to determine the presence of a biochemical imbalance in patients. They merely observe and announce the existence of imbalances. They just desire to believe this. Mental illness does not exist.



    Google online ';Emotional Abuse'; Read about bullies online.

    Realize its their problem.

    Google- Diet Depression Soda Thyroid

    Google-';Sinners prayer';- learn that heaven awaits you

    Google- ';Deliverance Prayers';



    Click my name to talk. - God wants you to know truth



    Source-- Experience in a ministry- I will pray with you.
    The self described minister who commented is a scumbag. He plainly couldn't care less about you and just wants more people to join his cult.



    Evolution is fact you idiot. Psychiatry is also a legitimate scientific medical science. You are the perfect example of the ignorance and damage religion is causing in society. I feel sorry for you and all people who think the same way because they lack the brain capacity or willpower to research the truth themselves
    I recommend you check out this social networking community called LetsReflect.com. There are people there going through situations similar to yours. They are great for advice and encouragement.



    The process of “Self Reflection” has truly changed my life….here’s my profile. http://www.letsreflect.com/profile.php?u…



    This is a journey….not a quick fix. The trick is staying positive and surrounding yourself with positive people. You are capable of great things! I believe in you. Best of luck.

    I think I'm bipolar, and I don't know how to tell my Parents. Help!?

    Hi, urmm.. you see, I'm fourteen, and I am 98% sure I'm bipolar. Everything just clicks, me and my best friend have done weeks of research and i've taken god know how many tests. I change moods so suddenly, one moment im hyper and happy and love life, the next im depressed, sluggish, cant get out of bed, and hate my life. Ive attemped suicide several times, and i go into this mood where the happier self is in a way watching the depressed version cut themself. The happier side is screaming, ';WHAT ARE YOU DOING!'; while the sadder self just acts on autopilot. I hear, and see things that aren't always there, and when i fight the depressed mood, or the sounds/images that arent there i suffer a horrible, painful, headache. But, i don't know how to tell my parents. I'm scared to, and don't know how. They don't understand, and whenever i try it always ends up in, ';Hayley, stop, you're fine! There is absolutely nothing wrong with you!';I think I'm bipolar, and I don't know how to tell my Parents. Help!?
    It seems like if you were bi polar your parents would know something was wrong... however, here is a site with support groups, others to talk to about this, run by doctors if you want to do that...

    Otherwise you can just ask them to see your doctor and talk to the doctor about it all....I think I'm bipolar, and I don't know how to tell my Parents. Help!?
    get really mad and shoot one of them in the leg. they will see you have anger issues and take action
    just talk to them about it, it might not be just bipolar, or tell them you want to be committed for testing and psychiatric help. if it doesn't get their attention, talk to your school councilor and have him/her talk to your parents.
    Tell your folks that you want to see a mental doctor to do some tests on you and go from there.

    How come some women have sex with someone they do not love, and why they do that?

    i want to ask why a woman wants to sleep with someon, may be for the first time, or just for changing mood..How come some women have sex with someone they do not love, and why they do that?
    Pure satisfaction. If you don't get the right guy, you may not be satisfied afterwards. That's why we need more.How come some women have sex with someone they do not love, and why they do that?
    money or to have a baby
    sex is a way to ENJOY! they do it either for money, relaxation or for their own satisfaction.
    why dont you ask kayla charlwood
    Us men do it too, it's called having fun, one night stands, sex is sex, it isn't just about love.
    same reason some guys do the same thing
    they just want sex, some may be addicted.

    some don't want commitment.

    some like to try out different things with different people.

    people don't have sex only because they love each other.

    it's a hobby what most people just generally like to do.

    it's pleasurable.
    i guess the same reason men do it.
    Casual sex can be fun as long as both people understand that it is casual.
    Because there $!uts out to take over the world.. They also fail... Miserably!
    It feels good!!!
    It's a cheap thing which is done by a person with no self-respect. It's become politically incorrect to say your opinion these days, but I won't say anything unless I live by it - and I do live by it.
    Sometimes we just want a human touch without worrying about a relationship.
    Some people can just regard it as a way of enjoying pleasure, without the emotional attachment .... but not everyone. I too could not enjoy sex in this manner, I don't want anyone but the one I love ....
    Everyone has a right to earn their livelihood
    Simple, some women like sex more than others, and are not particular how and where they get it. But it has to be said, the same mantra applies to men.
    I like men and I like sex...it doesn't have to be about love.
    They are only looking for comfort and satisfaction.
    might be the phisical need of her at that time. s money and a lot of other factors like blackmail, harrassment for other reasons
    don't man do it 2?????????/
    maybe be cuz they like it or they can do it for money unless if there a prostitute on the side walk selling money for sex



    or they like and and have fun time together, like in high school people have sex that they dont even know
    Why not ask of the guy the same thing? The women may ask why do man flirt? Desire sometimes rule the flesh. Why do married men look for mistresses? Why do single women prefer married men? Why sometimes the wife have a fling with some body's hubby, or a toy boy somewhere? Your question is subjective. I'm not siding any genre but like I said earlier desire stand to conquer the body at times even when she may regret it after wards. One particular moment in a flash could make it happen without real thought put into it. When the momentum is right people do it even at dark public parks, stop by the road side for a quickie. Some even do it standing up behind a pub. And, mind you, it happens in bushes by fairly intellectual personalities too. Of course, to answer your question bluntly, perhaps the woman could be a sex maniac, or a slut. Same goes to the guy. Sometimes women let their weaknesses to rule their minds to satisfy the desire as and when they choose, or even at unexpected moments. So do men.



    Sometimes, a particular moment is simply irresistible. Like when someone is to enjoy a good cup of coffee, or to lick the explicit taste of vanilla ice cream right at that specific point of time, the sigh of savoring the taste of a pizza - all in a moment of need that nothing could stop you from having something so delicious into your mouth once it's within reach. Sex could be in quite a similar affair, too, you know.



    Some women respond to their egoistic feeling of being attractive with a fantasy of being desirable. So, they tend to deliberately look for kicks to satisfy their needs by luring a guy to bed with her, or accept an invitation - whether from a married man, stranger or a lovable character from the tavern. Sometimes, the horny thing come by accident and when chemistry interacts with each other, in one instance, the body language takes control...and oops there they go for a touch-down! But, mind you, fella, although you may say as what you said, there is a level of quality in the guy too that plays a huge role in making her feel aroused or attracted to. Not merely some Tom, Dick and Harry. The woman may give in looking cheaply, but they are not not an easy catch as you may think.



    Sometimes, the woman may have some kind of dissatisfaction with her lover, and to get at him, she may resort to having a one night stand with a stranger. No love, no romance is required as she doesn't want a relationship which will add more interference in her already troubled life maybe. It's better without strings attached. As much as you may feel queer about why certain woman react as you questioned, men do as many crazy things too. By all virtues in your question, now, did you have sex before marriage? There you go, it's neither a moral thing either, don't you think, if the books are to be used to measure perfectness.



    Accept people as the are. Do not judge them. Even a slut could be a more kinder person than those who go to worship regularly. Perhaps, a prostitute could come to some body's aid far more meaningful than the more so-called holy ones. Example, the good Samaritan. If your woman is the one in subject, then by all means, look for someone that could come to par to your preferred standards.
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    He is in the marine corp. and i get to text him all day and he calls me at the end of the day when he has free time to talk and hes so loving and caring... we have been together for a year and a half... hes amazing but at night lately when he lays down in bed and talks to me.. we argue sometimes but it could be the littlest argument and he flips and his whole mood changes and he starts being a complete a** to me calling me names... he only started getting like this since 2 months ago... i cant take it.. he hurts my feelings and i cry so much.. but then the next morning he calls me and apologizes of how d*ck he was and he hates hurting me and never wants to do that to me again.. but it still happens... does anyone no how to solve this? i try telling him lets not talk on the phone that long before you go to sleep so we dont get that far but he says he loves talking to me and he wants to stay on the phone... idk what to do... help :/My boyfriend gets like mood changes at night...
    maybe you should talk to him about it during his good moods and find out if something is stressing him out. i would call his name-calling domestic abuse of the emotional kind- but it seems like he was okay until 2 months ago.

    I think my wife has a hormonal imbalance, what are the symptoms?

    I'm going to list my 27 year old wife's symptoms, if you want to pick out the symptoms she has that's fine but it might just be easier to tell me what the symptoms that you had instead... At first I thought it was depression but someone said it could be hormonal instead....



    In regards to my wife though: she's very fast to change moods (mood swings), she's very irritable, she no longer cares about her body or her appearance, she thinks the world around her needs to change and she's perfect, she seems to be always bleeding even when not on her period, she has PMS often, she's always cold when everyone else is hot and the opposite, she has frequent headaches, she gets very low quality sleep so wakes up tired, she's fatigued half way through the day and can't do anything after 4 or 5pm, she's argumentative and stubborn (never was an issue), and my personal favorite she has really low sex drive (libido) and we only ';get it on'; about once every 3 or 4 weeks but sometimes longer (sometimes as long as 3 months apart).



    She's been like this for so long that she feels like there's nothing wrong with her and that I'm the one has the problem but she can't explain the above symptoms... If she does have a hormonal imbalance, what should she do? Is it fixable? How long will it take to get better?



    Now she has a very high stress life which wasn't always this way but because she had to return to work after being a stay at home mom for 4 years it's changed her life faster than she thought it would. She has to do the chores that I don't do (and I do a lot of them so don't troll me please), she has to periodically watch the kids and/or care for them (again I do a lot of the work too so don't troll me please), she has a lot of online friends (about 20 or so) through Yahoo!Groups that she MUST keep up with on a daily basis who are still stay at home mom's and she feels out of the loop on what's going on since she's working now and misses a lot of gossip, she wants to provide a ';quality'; childhood for the kids so she's signing them up for extra programs outside of school, and of course there's the stress of being a house owner with bills (which I could do but she's afraid I'll mess something up)...



    Side notes: She's a heavy caffeine drinker (I quit caffeine in February, well all forms but chocolate), she's on birth control and has been since the beginning of last year, she too is the chocolate lover, and she doesn't exercise but she's down to 110 lbs.I think my wife has a hormonal imbalance, what are the symptoms?
    As you know this type of behavior is not normal. I did go through a period of time like this that lasted more than a year. I was diagnosed with major depressive disorder. Many changes in her life all at one time, is too much for some people to handle. Like your wife I tried to be super mom. It almost cost me my marriage. I also did not notice the changes. Everyone around me was telling me what a B**** I had become. I thought it was everyone else. I was started on Prozac. Whenever anyone hears that they flip out. It is an antidepressant just like the others. It is used to treat major depression. I am 110% better. I now know how bad I was because I know how good I feel now. I still have my times when I feel low, but the medicine has changed my life. Be supportive of her, sometimes marriage is not 50/50 sometimes its 40/60 sometimes 20/80. Do what needs to be done to help her get through this. Go with her to the doctor. Housework will always be there. No one was honored for how clean they kept their house. We do that as a family on a weekend day,then have fun as a family the rest of the time. Some blood work may explain a lot. Again be supportive and give a little extra time to her. Women's hormones do fluctuate and maybe the birth control is part of the problem also. Good Luck and I hope she will feel better soon.I think my wife has a hormonal imbalance, what are the symptoms?
    Just she needs some change. Don't put any pressure she will be alright. let her be in her own way.
    I agree, contraceptive pills are nothing but external hormones, They manipulate the brain's ability and emotions.



    Tip: Try to boost up ur sex life,once in 3 months counts to be 4 times a year.Thats...too less for a couple

    Make her feel that you are attracted towards her and love her. ( in case you don't, do not pretend)
    Wow, I had most of the symptoms, it happened when I started taking contraception (injection), on top of most of the things you mentioned I also had a bad discharge. So I changed the injection, it stopped. I think she needs to speak to her doctor maybe the doctor can help.

    How do I change the moods of my sims?

    I have the sims 2. %26amp; when some of my sims moved into a house, their moods were down %26amp; they refused to function (for example, they refused to play instruments, study, %26amp; find a job). I'm just wondering how to change this somehow, cheat or no cheat.How do I change the moods of my sims?
    PC I hope

    open cheat box by holding ctrl shift c and type

    maxmotives

    this will make their motives full. motives meaning hunger,bladder etc.

    How to controle mood swings? 10 weeks pregnant!?

    I'm 10 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

    I have been so moody...especially towards my husband. I'm really trying to controle it but it seems so hard!

    I just want to stay positive. I love my husband and I love this baby and I really need to stay positive but it's hard when my moods change ever 5 mins! Plus I'm bipolar and this pregnancy is pretty much the first time off medication in over 5 years!



    Anyone else moody towards your husband? mine is pretty good about it...but sometimes I think I push it.



    How do you controle your mood swings?How to controle mood swings? 10 weeks pregnant!?
    You can try some soothing techniques like lavender baths or maybe doing something you enjoy like movies with a friend, prenatal massages or curl up with a good book. Other than that I would just suggest expressing how you feel to your husband. Let him know that your hormones are changing dramatically during this stage of your pregnancy and that it's causing you to feel very moody and if he could just put up with it for a little while then in a few months you'll give him a beautiful child as a thank you gift.How to controle mood swings? 10 weeks pregnant!?
    listen...my wife just had a baby...and you're just going to be an insufferable b**ch for the next couple months. It's the way it is. Don't worry though, you can always just blame it on your husband by saying something trite like, ';You don't know what it's like be pregnant.';
    you can't necessarily control mood swings. what you can do is everytime you start to feel upset take a deep breath and explain it calmly to your husband. this really helped me and my b/f. he just listened while i explained myself then he would hug me and call me a silly hormonal prego. (the last part didn't always make me feel better but it usually made me look at what i was doing and laugh)
    Mood swings are normal, especially if this is your first. Try and remember it can be overwhelming to have a baby and allow yourself to feel all the feelings that come with being pregnant. Read some pregnancy books they usually help, and try to have a good support system
    Mood swings are hard to control especially pregnant and not realizing it half way through. But after your hormones peak it will get easier. Just try to remember to choose your battles. And bite your toung even when it's hard. Don't worry it will pass
    mood swings are normal , you can start by counting to 10 before you say or do something you will regret , talk with your doctor about your your mood swings and about being bipolar maybe he can help you .the best of luck...a mom
    LOL! I'm 14 weeks now and the moodiness has calmed down a little. But I was completely out of control for a few weeks there. Lucky for my husband, I took it out on co-workers :( (I don't advise you do that) but I also found this really fun game on the internet to let out some of my preggo rage: http://www.addictinggames.com/interactiv



    Anyway,as far as the bipolar thing, can you talk to your Dr about taking another med? I suffer from depression, and they switched me from my normal med to prozac so at least I'm on something while I'm preggo. I think it's helping. They told me Prozac and 1 other anti-depressant (I forget which) have been proven safe during pregnancy.
    hey hun!!! OMGGGG I can't believe I am reading this. I 2 am bipolar and am off my meds. My dr put me on Lamictal bc I have seizures and bipolar so it works for both but NOTHINGGGGGGGGGG like depakote! I think I push it as well. I mean my husband is so used to my mood swings but it scares me bc I don't want to hurt his feelings but sometimes I just go into a bitter rage for no reason! Its a hard transition trust me! its like one minute ur really happy then the next, beware to whoever crosses ur path! So I am in the same boat!! GOOD LUCK HUNNI GIRL!!! If you do come across some good tips please let me know!!!! Cuz sometimes I am sooo lost!!! GOOD LUCK HUNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    How do I be in a better mood more often?

    The other night me and my girlfriend got in a conversation about me and my mood changes. She pointed out that sometimes I can be in a great mood and very lively and energetic and then other times I can be really bummed out and not talkative at all. One of my problems I know is my comfort level of the particular place I'm at. She's a very outgoing girl who loves life, and I can be at times too but often I'll get a bad vibe and become very shy or upset. I had a very reserved childhood, most of my time was spent by myself and I rarely was involved in big groups of people, so a lot of it's that. But I really want to change for her, because it obviously bothers her, she says I'm such a funny and sweet guy when I'm happy and that it makes her so happy just being around me when I'm like that.How do I be in a better mood more often?
    Do what you love and love what you do man!



    Have fun and you'll enjoy life :)How do I be in a better mood more often?
    Fish oil and optimism. Honestly, this girl should know about you reserved childhood. She shouldn't try to push you into anything, but it's obvious that you're a very willing student. Just go out more, and try to get more involved whenever you're out. Talk to more people, and when she's with her friends every now and then go and you don't even really have to talk, just stand there and say something when you feel you have something to say, laugh when there's something funny.



    You're mainly comfortable in area's that you know well, so how about you try to duplicate that energy when you're in areas you're not familar with.
    as T.I. once said, '; What you need to do is be thankful for the life that you got. You know what I'm sayin'. Stop lookin' at what you ain't got and start bein' thankful for what you do got.';

    Almost 16 month old son's mood swings after illness?

    My son had an ear and throat infection at the end of last week and over the course of 5 days was switched from Amoxcillian for 3 days to Cefdinir for 2 days and then given an injection of another antibiotic yesterday to replace the other 2 antibiotics he was on. (This was due to reactions to the Cefdinir such as high fever, yeast infections in the diaper region, and a rash around his mouth.) The 2 days he was on Cefdinir and the past day on the injected antibiotic, my wife and I have noticed a drastic mood change in our son. He is irritable, cranky, not wanting to be touched, he has a hair trigger about anything you do, he even doesn't want to be talked to or held. I am wondering how much of that is from the ear infection and how much is possibly from the antibiotics. Has anyone ever seen a marked mood change in their child while on antibiotics?Almost 16 month old son's mood swings after illness?
    bless his heart! he must be feeling miserable! Gosh, all that he's going through is enough to make anyone cranky! Ear infection, throat infection, yeast infections, and antibiotics can make you feel yucky too, and he's had a lot of them. wow. My son had constant ear infections for 5 months, and was a complete bear to be around. Ear infections are completely miserable in themselves, then add everything else ontop of them. I wouldn't think it's the medicine alone, just the entire situation in general. I would give him some time to recover. Keep a close eye on him, and don't hesitate to call the doctor if you're worried. It's what they're there for!



    I hope your little guy feels better soon! Almost 16 month old son's mood swings after illness?
    I would be cranky too...This too shall pass. My son got a viral rash that was itchy. He swore up and down that he was still itchy two weeks later, even thoough the rash was completely gone. Just residual effects.



    Trust me, he will get over this.
    Well if I was on all that medication I would be cranky as well so it's just from switching to all the different medication he is just not happy but as soon as he gets off of the meds he'll be fine...
    He may also be upset because he is having a lot of trouble hearing, you can imagine what that would be like for a child too young to understand why.



    If you suspect that his ears are still in pain I would suggest you get some anesthetic ear drops (in the US available without prescription as far as I know)



    Food sensitivities (which can be caused by drugs as well, particularly the food dye in liquid medicine) can also cause behavioural issues as well.



    You also might be interested to know that antibiotics are not considered the best option for most kids:





    http://www.drgreene.com/21_1775.html

    The consensus, evidence-based 2004 guidelines recommend that children under 6 months of age with red hot ear infections should be treated with antibiotics for 10 days and pain relief for at least the first 24 hours, whether or not the diagnosis is certain. Remember, antibiotics do not help pain during the most painful first 24 hours, and help pain only minimally after that. Kids 6 months to 2 years should receive 10 days of antibiotics and at least 24 hours of pain relief for a red hot ear if the diagnosis of an acute ear infection is certain (it must be an abrupt onset, with physical certainty of fluid in the ears, and clear evidence of an inflamed eardrum ?all 3). If the diagnosis of an acute infection is uncertain in these kids, they can be treated with pain relief and observed without antibiotics, (wel talk about what this means soon), unless they檝e had a fever of 102.2 or higher in the last 24 hours, or severe symptoms. Once children have reached their second birthdays, pain relief and antibiotics are recommended if both the diagnosis of an acute infection is certain and the illness is severe with a fever of at least 102.2 or symptoms of severe illness. Otherwise, observation and pain relief can be the better course of action. Most kids without a high fever don檛 need antibiotics for ear infections.



    http://www.drgreene.com/21_1195.html

    How is it treated?

    Antibiotics are used to treat strep throat and to prevent many of its complications, including rheumatic fever. Ibuprofen can help children feel much better while the antibiotic is taking effect. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommends against treating sore throats with antibiotics unless the strep test is positive.







    http://www.drgreene.com/21_1777.html

    Investigators have compared matched children with acute, red hot ear infections who were treated initially with observation (including earache relief) and those who were treated initially with antibiotics. How did the two groups fare? I檇 rather be treated with observation! The two groups felt the same as each other after 24 hours, and again after 2-3 days, and 4-7 days. The same percentage in both groups were over their ear infections after 7-14 days. Persistent fluid in the ear was the same in both groups. Pain duration was the same in both groups, although those in the observation group were more likely to get pain medicine. Fevers lasted, on average, a day less in those who started with antibiotics. The risk of spreading bacterial infection or bacterial complications was statistically the same in both groups, although the numbers were too small to see a real difference. The trend, though, was more than 3 times as many spreading or complicated infections in those who got antibiotics. And, of course, those who got antibiotics were also far more likely to develop nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, skin rashes, and other antibiotic side effects ?all the while selectively breeding more resistant bacteria in that particular child, and in the environment. Whenever it檚 appropriate to treat with pain relief rather than antibiotics, the choice is clear: No contest.
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  • Why does he change so much?

    I am 25 years old, and I have been best friends with this guy for about 5 years now. Over the years i have fallen in love with him. I have never come out and told him, and i am not planning on it any time soon. He has made statements that i am attractive and stuff, but would never date me because he would not want to ruin our close friendship, and he says that would be like dating a sister. I know he is not stupid, and i am sure he probably knows how i feel about him. He will ask me to go to dinner sometimes or to a movie, or he will come visit me at work or something, (just as friends) and he will be so sweet and so fun and then the very next day, he turns ice cold, hes mean, and rude, and distant and barely talks to me. It usually takes a day or two for him to get back to normal. I know its nothing that i do, because i dont come on strong, i just act normal and have fun. Telling him how i feel is not an option at this time, but what could be up with his mood changes??Why does he change so much?
    Maybe, he wants to you to make the move and since you didnt he gets upset or is in a bad mood, you should really talk to him and ask him why to know the real answer then you two can work it out wellWhy does he change so much?
    i would guess, he wishes he didnt see you like a sister.



    he gets close, he wants you, feels like he is chasing his sister, pushes you away.



    the only cure, is you telling him you want him as much as he wants you, but you said you cant do that.



    also, there is no guaranty that you two could date anyway, a lot of guys cant switch from friend to boyfriend.
    Something may be going on in his life, or he could just be having a bad day. Ask him?
    Oh! my bestfreind is like that too, when things are going bad for him he takes it out on me, they only do this because something tells me u are really nice and caring and probably nuturing to him, he doesnt mean it but at the same time hes man enough to not say hurtful things too as well, i use to like mines but i got tired of his mood swings and stopped talkin to him for abt 6mths, got a bf and was just occupied , he left a note on my call saying call him i waited 4 abt 3 wks, he was happy, then a mths ago, hes crazy again, i canttake it, i told him ';i loved him but when u figure out why u act the way u do and u can control yourself and figure out who your real friends are call me becos i cant take the negativity and he needs help'; and i said goodbye. Hes called several times but i dont feel like talkin, hes just so negative at times i really thinkin of just not talkin 2 him ever again, Oh and by the way guys like that will let other people treat them any kinda way, but end up hurtin people like u and i, Good luck friend
    It sounds like it may be that he is bi-polar. I know because I'm that way too.

    Does he have energy changes for no reason? Like for days he's up doing and than then crashes for days?
    there's alot of things that maybe he's just now showing. maybe somthings just going through his mind or maybe somthing you dont know about like a secret lover? aggervation at work? maybe somthign with his family? or maybe simply he's going through somthing.. it depends how long he's been like this. The best thing you can do and i'm simply saying this from experiance is to just say somthing like this ';look i know you dont want to change our friendship and i can understand that but i just want to tell you that i think i have fallen for you for the amazing years ive known you...'; just see what he says. it's the truth and we all have to face reality now or sooner or later... i'm sorry your goin through somthing like this really i am. it's good you dont come on strong it might scare some people... anyways i hope that helps in some way. good luck!

    Dave
    I'm kinda in the same situation, been really good friends with a guy and I care about him so much. I can't seem to tell him how I feel though, and like you I'm pretty sure he knows, but I don't want to risk our friendship. It's hard, I would say talk to him about everything, I should do that myself, but I can't. Good luck to you.
    I cannot answer that, really... but I do understand. I love this girl I have known for 2 years, and she doesn't want to date me cause I'm too good of a friend........... well, what I don't get is WHY NOT?????? shouldn't you be looking for someone like that to go out with? I mean you surely do not want to date someone you can't get a long with, and obviously if we are best friends, I'm doing something right...........I don't get that either
    It might be he's just confused. He may want to date you but, he might not want to ruin the relationship you have now because after dating, you may not be able to have the whole friend relationship.

    Why am I always in a cr*p mood?

    Hi. I just turned 18 years old, I'm in the US Army, and I have a question.



    It's posted in my title, but here are a few details.



    I'll go to the schoolhouse (I'm in AIT training to be a wheeled vehicle mechanic) and have a relatively good day, no one acts like... hmmm, how to say this without cursing? A hypocritical, immature, disrespectful little bastard.



    Maybe I'm just a softskin. I was brought up in a very respectful household, no one spoke to each other in the way people speak to me. That I can deal with.



    The big problem is, when I screw up (and everyone does), I catch hell for it for weeks afterward. Everyone else gets it for a day or two, because everyone likes them. Not many like me, so I get it for a long time. Also, I get singled out a lot for things. Obviously there's no excuse, but if I'm doing something wrong, and most of the class is doing the same thing, but you only yell at me for it? Something doesn't make sense there. What makes me laugh is when they tell me to stop talking in formation, and then continue their own conversation in formation. (If you couldn't tell already, we're not very disciplined.) Then someone will give me s*** for something I did, and it's long over with. I've not gotten in any fistfights (yet) because I don't want the Article 15. But I've actually gone to swing and stopped myself. It eats at me, and it makes me depressed to go back to the barracks knowing I can't do anything about what's happening. I let myself be walked on through my schooling, and I refuse to let it happen anymore.



    Back to the original reason I asked this question:



    Why, when I have a good day and no one gives me crap for anything, do I go back to the barracks and feel depressed? I don't walk to talk to anyone, and I tend to snap at people if they talk to me. I don't like it, because my disposition is generally happy-go-lucky and bouncy. I hate snapping at people, I feel bad afterwards.



    Why can't I let what people say go? I put up an image like I don't care what they say, but inside it eats at me. Why do I get in a bad mood for no reason at all? Sometimes it even changes at the schoolhouse. All of a sudden I go from bouncy to dark. That's the only way I can begin to explain it. I feel dark. It's not just a mood change. It's a change of personality. All of a sudden I just want to take a pistol and blow a hole in my head. People speak to me and I am downright nasty for no reason, and I hate it. I made names for them. I've written poems about it, and I found I write poems a lot when I'm depressed, never when I'm happy. The entire mentality I have and the depression I feel at that point is called the night, and the personality's name is Shadow.



    I was diagnosed with bipolarity about a year ago, but I went back to the same psychiatrist later and the new statement was ';No symptoms, no diagnosis.'; I have ADD, which gets aggravated in high stress situations (Such as the Army), and I have a history of depression. I had a gun to my head in sophomore year, loaded and ready.



    The summary of it now is I go from happy to dark in a matter of seconds, sometimes for no reason at all.



    Bipolarity?

    Or just soft skin?Why am I always in a cr*p mood?
    may be u r in this mood because u are not satisfied with your life. u need to know what u want from life. set up goals targets and work hard to achieve them.. and every body loves u... dont be negative...xoxo..

    Do I have a mood disorder?

    Very often I find my moods changing on a daily basis. I can go from really really happy and loving to thinking the worst about the people I love. I feel the happiest when I am loving and caring to my family and boyfriend but then one little thing can trigger a mood change. I am a reactive person i have always been. Very impulsive as well. There are days when I can handle every day stresses very well and other days when I react right away without thinking about the consequences. I would like to be a less reactive person and learn how to think first and than speak instead of the other way around. When I get really down sometimes I think about just giving up. How can i learn to be a less reactive person?Do I have a mood disorder?
    ~sometimes~













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    Why can music change your moods?

    how come music can change or enhance your moods? Does this happen to everyone?Why can music change your moods?
    Yes, it does happen to everyone. The type of music you listen to would have influence on your moods for sure.That is why experts suggest drivers to play soft music in their vehicles as that would lessen their reaction rate which in turn would avoid accidents and road rages.



    Listening to soft music during stress helps to calm down the nerves.



    It has been proved that brain areas involved in listening to music are the same as those involved in other pleasurable activities, like eating chocolate or winning a bet.



    The affect of music on hormone levels in the human body can also be quantified, and there is definite evidence that music can lower levels of cortisol in the body (associated with arousal and stress), and raise levels of melatonin (which can induce sleep). It can also precipitate the release of endorphins, the body's natural painkiller.Why can music change your moods?
    Everything has a chemical reaction to your brain from your senses. Eyes - Color, Ears - Sound, Touch - feelings, Taste - foods. Etc. It's just how your internal brain reacts to external things.
    I sing music with a barbershop chorus. Once a week we rehearse for 2 1/2 hours. When we're done, we're exhausted but exhilarated! It's good exercise, it really helps our breathing, and it's just plain fun to sing barbershop chords to create a special kind of harmony you won't find anywhere else! I can go there feeling tired or a little down...and after singing with 70 friends I feel ready-to-go and ';up.';



    I don't know if it happens to everyone, but I'm pretty sure it happens to the 70,000 men and women around the world who sing barbershop music! -- Dr. Bob
    yes this happens to anyone different music have different emotions to them and te lyrics have something to do with it as well because if you listen to certain lyrics then you actually feel like you the person or your there with what trhe lyrocs are sum songs make you wanna dance sum songs make you wanna cry but u must no your self and how you react to different kinds of music first then you begin yto understand how othere ppl do i am taking gcse music and we learnt about and i think music is really clever on how it helps ppl like sum ppl make love to certain music sum purpose some have fights its just the way the brain reeacts with them
    music is something magical. music comes from the heart . it's pleasant whether rocking ones also. when u listen to music u just get into it %26amp; u forget everything
    I've actually studied this with a published psychologist PHD.



    We think (alright, he didn't exactly say he thought I was right but he did say a polite maybe...), that stimulation alone makes people happy because of conditioning.



    It inherently feels good to be able to predict anything. Anything at all that is predictable (if not too unpleasant) becomes a comfort.



    But, the reverse, when it does not result in punishment (as so often failure to correctly predict future events does in real life) is also a form of reward for behavior (listening is a behavior).



    So, we try to make sense of sound. And we predict what it will do. We must because as creatures we inherently are better prepared for life if we screen out the mundane. You must concentrate to be aware of the sound of the fan blowing air during a conversation, because it is biologically successful to have this ability of discrimination.



    Being rewarded for success in this is to have better, uncluttered memories (and explains why women don't recall what men do as biologically different things are vital to function in different roles inherent of the genders).



    I think this is why men are more paranoid, about different types o threatening noises. We tend to look for signs of the rhino romping hrough the grass (or busting through the hedgerows), unconciously of course.



    When a person of a certain makeup hears a bad note, however, it is actually painful.
    Theres a section in everyone's brain that registers music, which brings your mood up.. and/or down so yes.. this probably happens to everyone =)
    yes it can bring you up or down

    dunno why exactly
    since hearing is a sense you can be turned on, turned off, aggravated, sadden, and some one said once hungry by the type of music you listen too. ever wonder why people listen to crazy music when they are angry.. they want to either stay angry or become more aggravated. and vise veras