I want to not aways have a negative look on life and i fight Alto with my brothers and sister so i was wondering if i should aways just when they make fun of me or do something to upset be to ignore or act like its no big deal??? is that bad or good????How to change my mood and life?
What I do is just try to avoid an argument or fight at all costs. Just ignore them because they want it to get to you, it's not fun to make fun of someone who doesn't react. So don't react, go to your room and do something you enjoy. Trust me.. it works a lot better than actually arguing.How to change my mood and life?
whenever you fight with your brothers and sister just let it go. don't react, ignore it and act like its no big deal. if you want to take it a step further apologize even if it wasn't your fault. If you don't argue your mood will be a lot better. Walking away from a fight makes you the bigger person. and also try to have a positive outlook on life. i know its hard sometimes, but if you have a positive outlook your mood will definitely improve and your life will definitely improve. if things don't go your way, it's ok b/c you will always end up where you were meant to be and whatever comes your way you need to learn to embrace it. try to avoid stress also.
hope this helps. good luck
I can give you a long positive lecture on mood but today I am just not in that mood. Ignore trivial issues and learn to control the rapid fluctuation of moods because after all, your brothers and sisters are your close dear ones.
Be a little lenient and forgive them.
Cry your heart out.. Talk to a close friend and just share all your worries and pain with them... Hang out with friends.. Listen to some good music.. I don't know what went wrong with you.. But everything will be alright.. You know, there is a quote.. something like... ';When God shuts one door he opens the another but we often keep looking at the closed door that we don't see the door that has been opened';. And always remember that, ';Nothing is impossible to a willing heart..';
Here is a poem for you:
IN LIFE...
In life there are people that will hurt us and cause us pain,
but we must learn to forgive and forget and not hold grudges.
In life there are mistakes we will make,
but we must learn from our wrongs and grow from them.
In life there are regrets we will have to live with,
but we must learn to leave the past behind and realize it is something we can't change.
In life there are people we will loose forever and can't have back,
but we must learn to let go %26amp; move on.
In life there are going to be obstacles that will cause interference,
but we must learn to overcome these challenges and grow stronger.
In life there are fears that will hold us back from what we want,
but we must learn to fight them with the courage from within.
God holds our lives in his hands. He holds the key to our future.
Only he knows our fate.
He see's everything and knows everything.
Everything in life really does happen for a reason: ';God's Reason';.
